my life industries

The title is a question we often ask ourselves when we find ourselves in unfamiliar and sometimes scary new territory. It's a legit question and its ok to ask it of yourself. I asked it often and I sometimes still do. However, that question more often than not gets us no results. Yet, we dwell on it; hoping and praying it will somehow lead us to the answers we need or want and for a few of us it does. For the vast majority of us it does not and never will.

Divorce, that ugly word with stigma dripping down and pooling all around it. What can you do about it? Nothing, absolutely fucking nothing; stop trying to reason with it or ignore it. Accept it for what it is and gather yourself and stat to move on. It won't be easy but it's a necessity that you start to rebuild. Whether the divorce was your fault or your significant other's fault; forgiveness is one the steps needed to start the rebuilding process. Will there be days where you want to give up? You better believe it. Will there be days where you second guess every decision you have made up until this very moment in your life; of course?  What's the secret to moving on? Fuck if I know but I know it's not dwelling on the past and crying about it. However, I think I can offer a little hope. That hope comes in the form or idea of focusing. Focusing on one thing at a time. Don't try to do everything at once. One task at a time; one fucking task at a time. 

Are you not where you want to be in your life? Good, because neither are the majority of people. I know I'm not but I'm working my way to where I want to go. There are thousands of ideas, websites, gurus out there that have the answers for all of us; to help us get the money, the job, the woman and everything else in life. However, with all of that out there, I mean, all that free information and yet the majority of people can't make any headway. I don't have any secret recipe for you. I do have the truth and it's no secret. That truth is that you and me are not disciplined. We are not disciplined to give up the comforts of our lives to struggle, learn, adapt, suffer and whatever thing else we need to do to grow. In a few simple words. We are lazy and scared! Lazy and scared in all aspects of our lives.